Why do I get jealous over a girl even though I don't want to be with her at all?

 There are a few possible reasons why your mom might get mad at you for barely doing anything to help but never get mad at your older sister when she does even less than you.

She might have higher expectations of you. This could be because you're the younger child, or because she sees you as being more responsible or capable.

She might be more frustrated with you because you're not meeting those expectations. If your sister has always been helpful, your mom may be more willing to overlook her occasional lapses.

She might be comparing you to your sister. This is unfair, but it's something that parents do all the time. If your sister is more helpful than you, your mom may be more likely to get mad at you when you don't help out.

She might be under a lot of stress and taking it out on you. If your mom is busy or dealing with a lot of problems, she may be more likely to snap at you for small things.

It's also possible that there's a reason why your mom doesn't get mad at your sister when she doesn't help out. Maybe your sister has a disability or illness that makes it difficult for her to help, or maybe she has other responsibilities, like a job or schoolwork.

If you're concerned about why your mom is getting mad at you for not helping out, the best thing to do is to talk to her about it. Ask her why she has different expectations of you and your sister, and explain that you're feeling frustrated and hurt by her behavior.

Here are some tips for talking to your mom:

Choose a time to talk when you're both calm and have time to have a conversation.

Start by telling your mom that you love her and that you appreciate everything she does for you.

Then, explain how you're feeling about her different expectations of you and your sister.

Be specific and give examples of times when she's gotten mad at you for not helping out, even though your sister has done less.

Listen to your mom's perspective and try to understand why she feels the way she does.

Work together to come up with a solution that works for both of you.

It's important to remember that your mom loves you, even if she doesn't always show it in the best way. By talking to her about your concerns, you can help to improve your relationship and make your home a happier place for everyone.